what do i do about my boyfriend?
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what do i do about my boyfriend?
My partner of four years is having doubts about me –when I rang him he didn’t want a lift home and he is trying to avoid me. he also said stuff like why have a girlfriend for or get married they just end up taking your money in the end anyhow. My partner has many fears-than he said she keeps ringing me –I will change my number. I really love this guy and feel he is for me forever but what can I do to help him overcome his fear? His past girlfriend really hurt him and took him for along of things but I am not like that. I love him because of jesus Christ. What do I do I am in pain
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Re: what do i do about my boyfriend?
I really don't know the context of your relationship. But if your relationship stays in boyfriend-girlfriend phase and won't get into marriage in FOUR years time, I'm not sure if your partner has this in horizon. I don't think it's a good idea if people (specially women) enter to this modern dating scene. Filter out early and quickly. Your time is limited. If he doesn't want to marry you, then move on.
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Re: what do i do about my boyfriend?
The culture of long term relationships before marriages is not a good thing to do, I believe it should be end asap!
I highly agreed with you. Four years are enough to understand each other.KevinMcCabe: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2019 6:07 pm I really don't know the context of your relationship. But if your relationship stays in boyfriend-girlfriend phase and won't get into marriage in FOUR years time, I'm not sure if your partner has this in horizon. I don't think it's a good idea if people (specially women) enter to this modern dating scene. Filter out early and quickly. Your time is limited. If he doesn't want to marry you, then move on.
The culture of long term relationships before marriages is not a good thing to do, I believe it should be end asap!